Maheshwor Rijal
15 April, 2014
My
first journey to the mountainous countryside of Karnali was adventurous
crossing the worn path, where I had to walk danger to life. And, I immediately
realized that my pain was not a pain seeing the real oppression of marginalized
and vulnerable women associated with struggle for existence and livelihood. No
food, shelter properly, let’s imagine how difficult the life is. This is the
real trial and tribulation that voiceless women of Karnali region encountering
innocently without any options to escape.
I
started my visiting with Project Coordinator from the Kalai cluster, Mugu
district, on 29 March 2014 and returned from Shreenagar cluster, Humla district
participating in the monthly meeting and
discussed with different agendas like finalization of best practices, Women Advocacy Development Groups (WDAG’s) proposals, matching grant and its process, reporting requirement, achievement
of literacy class and Monitoring
and Evaluation ( M & E) data
collection. When I asked to women of our Women Advocacy Development Groups (WDAGs),
it is found that their living standards have been changed. As per the interaction and discussion with
women, they explored the situation two years back, and they replied that women
are double subjugated within family and in society. The situation was
reprehensive as there was no space of synergic stimulation for women to be
empowered in this deeply rooted system of patriarchy. This is the real voices WDAGs during my short
ethnographic staying in the community. And, this was because of increasing
cases of domestic violence, gender discrimination against women even if male
and female are supposed to be the two wheels of a same cart. The life of women
was undoubtly under pressure since they have to do every activity like taking
care of children, livestock’s, farming works.
It
is a progress from the project I Have a
Voice: Women Advocating for Development in Nepal funded by PATC, as living
standard of women has been changed, Now, women are able to read, write and
operate simple mathematics needed for daily life. Women are able to advocate
and fight for their rights.
Despite
of having such kinds of heavy work load stripping babies to their back, women
are not still paid in comparison with male counterparts. This is the one of the
problems, needs to be addressed soon for creating the equitable and inclusive
society so far. When I asked with women
of WDAGs regarding the system of Chaupadi,
they replied that the system of Chaupadi
has been minimized and women started to live inside home rather but not in
cattle. The situation of Sothern belts of Humla has been overlooked from the
government stakeholder. I observed that
WDAGs members representing Shreenagar, Jaira, and Kalika VDC. This was the
impact of the project as the reached in the level of self-empowerment. And,
this is proved by their delegation to the district level concerned authority
including District Agriculture Office (DADO), District Development Office
(DAO), and District Health Office (DHO). And, district level concerned assured
the urgent need of establishing Health Camp soon to check diseases regarding
the women reproductive organs.
Last
but not a least, my reflective understanding symbolizes the fact that we have
done significant things for social changes and transformations. It was
interesting to see the all women including Dalit, and non-Dalit, women with
disability, and single women sit together, and discussed the agendas for social
changes and transformation for empowering women.
Living Fully......!!!
Thank
you.